Jon Carl lives in Trenton, NJ, with his husband of 26 years and two boy cats. He feels a special affinity with contemplatives of any tradition and the LGBTQIA+ community.

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I’m Jon Carl Lewis.

I’m a spiritual director.

I help followers of Christ connect more deeply with Christ—and each other—so that they might live with abundant joy, loving God and their neighbor with all their heart, soul, mind, and strength.

Do you wish to feel the presence of the divine more strongly in your daily life?

Are you seeking to connect with others in ways that align with your spiritual values?

Do you struggle with integrating your sexuality and your spirituality?

Jon Carl has a gift for holding space and a warmhearted presence. I left our very first conversation knowing a part of me had been healed. Being able to share openly about my challenges with sexuality and religion with someone who can relate gave me clarity in ways I wasn’t expecting. There are very few people I feel comfortable sharing the “deep” stuff with, and Jon Carl became one of them almost immediately. I highly recommend Jon Carl to anyone looking for a compassionate guide who can help you become a better version of yourself.

— Chase Ruzek